Every year I choose one little word … a word of the year … to guide to live by every day for the year. This year, my word is:
I chose this word because I tend to find myself rushing through life just to get things done, to mark it off my never ending to do list. I don’t want to live this way. I want to ‘enjoy the process’ …enjoy it all from the mundane functions of life to the more exciting times. Everything counts …. being present is a gift that I give to myself and to my family.
- Commit to a healthy lifestyle every day.
The ‘every day’ is most important because I’m all ‘gung ho’ on Monday’s and then peter out when the weekend rolls around. I’m on the endless cycle of lose 5 pounds during the week and then gain it back over the weekend. I found this quote which says it all in what I need to remember every day!
- Grow my spiritual practice with God
- Be mindful of my finances and make wise decisions to achieve long term financial goals
- Expand and enrich my relationships, reach out, connect say yes more often
There is a lot in here … I want to meet more people, be more involved, say yes to invites and new relationships. I want to host more parties, invite people over, put myself out there this year in reaching out and expanding my social circle.
- Simplify my life by decluttering and organizing my home
- Recharge and recommit to my professional career
This is the year I need to recommit to my career; make some long term goals. Look for ways to exceed expectations and bring my best every day.
- Be intentionally present in my daughter’s life; model a good life
- Improve my marriage; look for the good and show appreciation
I know one thing I can do is to appreciate my husband for who he is and not always focus on what I wish he was or what I hope he’ll do … he’s a good man and I’m lucky to have him in my life. Everyone has flaws, nobody is perfect, appreciate him for who he is. He makes me a better person.
- Continue to pursue my creative outlets: blogging, photography, journaling, reading, etc…
Do more of the things I love to do – make the time and plan out blogging posts. I also noted that I barely used my DSL camera this year; the iphone is just so convienent but it is far from the quality of a real DSL. I am going to bring my camera with me more often and look for opportunites to take pictures. I also need to brush up on my skills.
- Learn chord theory on the piano